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This section deals with how the internet is related to suicidal behaviour in young people. Problems associated with websites devoted to suicide and suicidal thoughts are discussed, and useful resources offering help and advice are provided.
What does suicide have to do with the Internet?
The increased use of the Internet as a source of information and support, and a method of socialising, has lead to an increase in the number of websites devoted to suicide and suicidal individuals. While some of these sites provide support and help for individuals feeling suicidal, others actively encourage suicide as a way of escaping problems. It is important for parents to be aware of the nature of the sites available, and to be aware of how these sites may influence vulnerable young people.
Chat rooms and forums
Chat rooms and forums enable anonymous discussion of taboo topics, such as suicide, at any time. Dedicated suicide related chat rooms and forums exist on the Internet, and some people may experience relief from suicidal tendencies by sharing their feelings and thoughts with others online. Use of such chat rooms and forums may provide an individual with constructive help and support from others who understand their feelings. Similarly, by offering advice to others experiencing similar emotions, the individual may begin to understand their own feelings better. Suicide sites can also contain links to help organizations offering telephone or email contact for those seeking help.
Potential problems
Cybersuicide related forums encompass a range of online activities, including information sources about religious, ethical or broader cultural aspects of suicide. Websites and chat rooms may also provide potentially dangerous resources, such as guides about obtaining and using tools of suicide. A number of sites discuss various suicide methods and the information on some of these sites can be graphic and upsetting. On the more extreme sites, suicide is presented as a natural and acceptable way out of current difficulties. Alternative ways of seeking help, support or counselling are not discussed. Unfortunately, a number of these sites have been implicated in young and vulnerable people taking their lives.
Advice to parents
Encourage your children to talk openly about their emotions and experiences. Be aware that teenage years can be incredibly difficult, and offer your children support and guidance to help them through. Be aware of the symptoms of depression, which could lead to suicidal feelings. For more information, see the following website:
Health Topics
The following fact sheet may also be of use: Internet Safety Zone
Encourage dialogue with your children regarding their use of the Internet, and make them aware of the diversity of the content of available sites. Whatever they are looking at on the web, there will be a multitude of sites offering a range of perspectives. Encourage them to analyse the content of a site, and try to focus on well-rounded and balanced sites. Without being intrusive, try to monitor your children’s use of the Internet, and make use of any Parental Controls your Internet Service Provider offers or software you have loaded on your home PC.
Remember...
While suicide is a very serious issue, it is important to realize that there are many organizations available that can offer professional and confidential advice, both to the sufferer and their friends and family. This is demonstrated by the number of websites and contact numbers listed below. These invaluable resources have helped countless people in the past, and will continue to offer these services to those who require them in the future.
For more information and advice
PAPYRUS, a voluntary organisation committed to the prevention of suicide, operates a national helpline service for anyone who is concerned that a young person they know may be suicidal.
Papyrus
Helplines
HOPELineUK is staffed by professionally trained advisers who can give support, practical advice and information to those who are dealing with a young person who may be at risk of suicide. The advisers are experienced in working with suicidal young people and have access to a comprehensive database from which they can direct callers to other sources of help and information should they be required. The helpline is open on weekday evenings from 7pm - 10pm and weekends from 2pm -5pm. A call back system is in place for people who call out of hours.
The Samaritans offer a 24/7 helpline, which can be used by suicidal individuals or those who are supporting them. They also have a very informative fact sheet on their website, which may be of use. Telephone: 08457 90 90 90 Samaritans
Useful websites
Not my Kid
Mind UK
Keep Kids Healthy
Sources: Cyberspace Research Unit
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